Q: Some kid seems not easy to get satisfied and be happy.

Some kids seem not easy to get satisfied and be happy.   She/he very often compares to others who have more or better things. Meanwhile She/he understands   there are many kids may not even have those things but does want to think or compare that way.

Dissatisfaction is a sign that your child feels a lack of something in her life – yet she may not be emotionally mature enough to explain or describe that void. As a parent, you can choose to fill that space with desired stuff or you can help guide your child through their dissatisfaction and teach them true gratitude.

• Be a role model.
  This is typically the backbone of most of my advice but that is because children learn what they see. If they watch an ungrateful parent demand more from others than is needed or deserved they will emulate this behaviour.

• Give her one-on-one time.
  It’s possible, especially when most families are extremely busy, that your child simply requires that her emotional needs be filled. Our children know we love them but it is easy to get swept up in work, housework, activities, etc., to the point that we forget to spend quality time with our little ones. Make a point to spend alone time with your daughter – it doesn’t have to be exciting or extravagant. Go for a drive or read a book together. Just do it as often as you can.

• Give choices.
  If your child wants something, give them alternative choices. That way they at least still feel like they are in control of what they receive. For example, when your child is asking for an expensive, unneeded item, give her a choice between a couple of affordable and practical items.

  • Teach gratitude.
    Show your child the gratitude and respect you expect them to show others. Always thank your child and encourage her to do the same. Give her opportunities to earn the things that she wants. Lastly, call her out on unappreciative behaviour but don’t punish her for it. Help her understand why her behaviour is unacceptable.