Q: What do I do when my child swears (curses)?

You can completely censor your own language around your little one but somewhere, somehow, your child will hear a curse word or two. It's likely that they will repeat it at some point (and usually in public because children are biologically wired to embarrass you). How do you approach a child who is experimenting with inappropriate language? Punish? Address? Ignore?

Typically children repeat curse words because they imitate the language they hear around them. They may not even realize that the words are offensive. If you've exhibited a reaction to your child's use of the word then they may begin to use it simply for attention. As your child ages they will begin to understand the context behind inappropriate language and may use it aggressively.

Here are a few tips to help curb your child's colourful language:

• Don't draw attention to it. Try not to react negatively or laugh when your child uses inappropriate language. As mentioned above, they may use it to gain your attention.

• If your child is using foul language contextually and toward you, avoid confronting your child about it. You may end up exacerbating the situation and fueling their anger. When your child is calm, take that opportunity to have a straightforward conversation about why using those words is not acceptable.

• Watch your own language – and if you do let a word or two slip make sure to apologize for using that language. This will set a good example for your child.